Always be decent and presentable. Your first and last impressions are the most important, so before you approach the girl of your dreams, make sure you won’t regret it when you look in the mirror later. Looks alone won’t score you a date with her, but it will help. You will also need to be a good person. Be kind and understanding of what she needs and wants.
Be prepared for whatever her reaction will be. You will need to calmly and coolly give her a response that will make her think good thoughts of you, even if she did reject your first attempt. This attitude may even change her mind.
Don’t have other people tell her what you are feeling.
You’ll get more points by being a man and telling her yourself. It’s also better if you do it in person and not on the phone.
• Don’t be ashamed of what other people may think. Who cares? You shouldn’t.
• It is a good idea to wait until you two are alone to tell her how you feel. You can also ask if the two of you can have a moment alone now or later.
If you love the girl, say something like, “I’ve thought you were beautiful since the moment I laid eyes on you. Each day you are more beautiful and now, I just can’t take it any longer. I need for you to know how I feel…I love you.”
It is important that you are upfront a possible without being too pushy. Don’t beat around the bush; you just may get the response you wanted.
Remember this: your purpose is to add great people to your life. You’re not saying “I like you so very much and all I want is for you to pleeease stay with me”, you’re saying “I like you because you do/are this, and I’d like to keep you in my life.” First of all, your mindset has to shift from “wanting to become part of somebody else’s life” to “inviting the person to be part of yours”. You’re offering that woman the chance to be part of your (awesome) life because she has earned it by doing/being whatever makes her great.
In doing so, you’re not only giving the person major validation, you’re also leaving it up to them to accept!
Pick Up the Check
Especially if you know that you make a lot more money than her, you should pick up the check. This is a great way to show rather than tell a girl you like her. After all, you’re not just investing time in her. You’re also investing money in her. But you don’t look at it that way at all. It’s just a matter of wanting to show her a good time. Don’t make a big deal out of it. Just quietly do it and she’ll get the hint that you like her.